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Certified Relationship Therapist, Entrepreneur, and Writer dedicated to helping you overcome emotional challenges and build healthier relationships.

Johnnywriter - Relationship Therapist

About Johnnywriter

Certified Relationship Therapist, Entrepreneur, Writer & Tech Founder

Johnnywriter Profile
8+ Years

Helping People Find Healing & Purpose

Transforming Pain into Purpose Since 2017

I'm Ukeme Johnny, known as Johnnywriter, a certified relationship therapist, entrepreneur, and writer based in Asaba, Delta State, Nigeria. My journey began in Etinan, Akwa Ibom State, where I was raised as the only son in a family of four children by my resilient mother.

Growing up without the presence of a loving marital relationship deeply shaped my emotional intelligence, empathy, and passion for helping others. My personal experiences with depression, trauma, and emotional challenges became the foundation for my mission to help others heal and thrive.

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Certified Therapist

Multiple specialized certifications

Entrepreneur

Founder of Hisparadise Group

Author

Writer of transformative books

Tech Founder

Creator of Jocintech

My Approach

A holistic methodology that combines evidence-based therapy with compassionate guidance

Therapy Approach

Personalized Healing & Growth

My therapeutic approach combines evidence-based methods with faith principles to address the whole person—mind, heart, and spirit. I believe that lasting transformation requires both practical tools and deeper emotional healing.

Every client's journey is unique, which is why I tailor my approach to your specific needs, challenges, and goals. Whether you're struggling with relationship issues, emotional wounds, or seeking personal growth, my methodology provides a clear pathway to healing.

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Assessment & Understanding

I begin by deeply listening to your story, understanding your unique challenges, identifying patterns, and establishing clear goals for our work together.

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Emotional Healing

Using specialized techniques, we address root causes of pain, process unresolved emotions, and heal past wounds that are affecting your current relationships.

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Practical Transformation

I provide concrete tools and strategies to help you build healthier patterns, improve communication, set boundaries, and create sustainable positive change.

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Ongoing Growth & Integration

Together, we work to integrate new insights, strengthen positive changes, and develop a roadmap for continued growth beyond our sessions.

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Featured Videos

Gain insights and practical advice on relationships, emotional healing, and personal growth

Video: Overcoming Relationship Anxiety

Overcoming Relationship Anxiety

Learn practical strategies to manage anxiety and build healthier connections with your partner.

Video: Healing From Childhood Trauma

Healing From Childhood Trauma

Discover how unresolved childhood experiences affect your adult relationships and steps to heal.

Video: Building Emotional Intelligence

Building Emotional Intelligence

Learn how to recognize, understand, and manage emotions for better relationships and mental wellbeing.

The Hisparadise Chronicles Podcast

Deep conversations about relationships, healing, and personal growth

Hisparadise Chronicles Podcast

Listen to Transformative Conversations

The Hisparadise Chronicles is a weekly podcast where I dive deep into relationship dynamics, emotional healing, and personal development. Each episode features practical insights, powerful stories, and actionable advice to help you transform your relationships and discover your purpose.

Whether you're struggling with relationship challenges, healing from past trauma, or simply seeking to grow, this podcast offers valuable guidance and inspiration for your journey.

Latest Episodes

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Breaking the Cycle of Toxic Relationships

June 5, 2025 45 minutes

In this powerful episode, I discuss the patterns that keep us trapped in toxic relationships and provide practical strategies for breaking free and building healthier connections. Learn to recognize red flags, understand your attachment style, and develop the confidence to choose better partners.

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02

Healing Your Inner Child: The Key to Adult Relationships

May 29, 2025 52 minutes

Explore how childhood experiences shape our adult relationships and learn practical techniques for healing your inner child. This episode offers transformative insights on how reconnecting with and nurturing your inner child can lead to more fulfilling and authentic relationships.

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03

The Art of Emotional Intelligence in Relationships

May 22, 2025 48 minutes

Discover how developing emotional intelligence can transform your relationships. Learn to identify, understand, and manage your emotions while becoming more attuned to the feelings of others. This episode provides practical exercises to enhance your emotional awareness and communication skills.

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Johnnywriter Books on Amazon

Read My Books on Amazon

Discover my collection of transformative books on Amazon. From relationship healing to personal growth, my books provide practical guidance and insights to help you overcome challenges and create positive change in your life.

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Purchase my books directly on Selar, Africa's leading digital marketplace. Enjoy instant delivery, secure payments, and exclusive bonus content when you buy my books through the Selar platform.

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Read My Books on Goodreads

Connect with me on Goodreads to discover my latest books, read reviews from other readers, and join discussions about relationship healing and personal growth. Add my books to your reading list and share your thoughts with our community.

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Start Your Journey With These Freebies!

Download these complimentary resources to begin your path to healing and growth

Relationship Assessment Guide

Relationship Assessment Guide

A comprehensive workbook to help you evaluate your current relationship dynamics and identify areas for growth.

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Emotional Healing Meditation

Emotional Healing Meditation

A guided audio meditation designed to help you process emotional pain and begin your healing journey.

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Self-Worth Affirmations

Self-Worth Affirmations

A collection of powerful daily affirmations to help you rebuild your self-esteem and recognize your value.

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Awards & Recognition

Honoring our commitment to excellence in therapy, entrepreneurship, and community impact

Excellence in Therapy

African Mental Health Initiative

2023

Recognized for outstanding contributions to relationship therapy and mental health advocacy in Nigeria and across Africa.

Rising Entrepreneur

Delta State Business Awards

2022

Awarded for innovative business approaches and significant impact through Hisparadise Group and Jocintech.

Author of the Year

Nigerian Self-Help Literature Awards

2024

Recognized for impactful writing that has helped thousands overcome addiction and emotional challenges.

Community Impact

Youth Empowerment Foundation

2023

Honored for contributions to youth development, mental health awareness, and skills empowerment programs.

Tech Innovation

Nigerian Tech Summit

2024

Recognized for creating digital solutions that bridge technology and mental health services through Jocintech.

Media Influencer

African Digital Content Awards

2023

Awarded for creating impactful digital content that promotes mental health awareness and relationship education.

Transformational Coaching Programs

Structured guidance to help you overcome challenges and create lasting positive change

My coaching programs combine evidence-based strategies with personalized support to help you achieve specific goals in your relationships, emotional wellbeing, and personal development. Each program is designed to provide accountability, practical tools, and transformative insights.

Relationship Renewal Program
For Couples

Relationship Renewal Program

A structured 8-week program designed to help couples rebuild trust, improve communication, and rekindle intimacy in their relationship.

Weekly 90-minute sessions
Personalized action plans
Communication skills training
Conflict resolution techniques
₦250,000 / per couple
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Emotional Freedom Blueprint
For Individuals

Emotional Freedom Blueprint

A transformative 12-week journey to help you heal from past trauma, overcome emotional blocks, and build healthier relationship patterns.

Bi-weekly 60-minute sessions
Emotional processing techniques
Boundary-setting framework
Self-worth rebuilding exercises
₦180,000 / individual
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Purpose Discovery Intensive
For Personal Growth

Purpose Discovery Intensive

A focused 6-week program to help you uncover your unique purpose, align your life with your values, and create a fulfilling path forward.

Weekly 75-minute sessions
Core values assessment
Strengths & gifts identification
Purpose statement creation
₦150,000 / individual
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Upcoming Events & Webinars

Join me for interactive sessions designed to transform your relationships and emotional wellbeing

Workshop: Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal June 25, 2025

Workshop: Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal

An interactive virtual workshop focused on healing and rebuilding trust in relationships after experiencing betrayal.

2:00 PM - 4:30 PM WAT
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Webinar: Navigating Family Dysfunction July 10, 2025

Webinar: Navigating Family Dysfunction

Learn effective strategies for maintaining your mental health while dealing with challenging family dynamics.

6:00 PM - 7:30 PM WAT
Virtual Event
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Live Q&A: Relationship Questions Answered July 28, 2025

Live Q&A: Relationship Questions Answered

Join me for a live session where I'll answer your most pressing relationship and emotional healing questions.

7:00 PM - 8:30 PM WAT
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Media Coverage

Featured interviews, articles, and appearances in major media outlets

Guardian Nigeria Interview

"Transforming Nigeria's Approach to Emotional Health" - Feature Interview

An in-depth conversation about the challenges facing relationships in modern Nigeria and innovative approaches to healing and growth.

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Channels TV Appearance

"Sunrise Daily" - Expert Panel on Family Dynamics

Featured as a relationship expert discussing modern family challenges, communication strategies, and approaches to building healthier homes.

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Radio Interview

"Relationship Matters" - Call-in Show Special Guest

Live radio appearance answering listeners' questions about dating challenges, marriage conflicts, and relationship healing.

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Latest Articles

Insights, advice, and guidance to help you navigate relationships and emotional wellbeing

Article: Signs You're in a Trauma Bond Relationship

Signs You're in a Trauma Bond Relationship

Understand the signs of trauma bonding and how to break free from these unhealthy attachment patterns.

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Article: Healing Your Inner Child

Healing Your Inner Child: A Path to Emotional Freedom

Discover how connecting with and healing your inner child can lead to emotional maturity and healthier relationships.

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Article: Building Emotional Boundaries

Building Emotional Boundaries: Self-Care or Selfishness?

Learn the difference between healthy boundaries and isolation, and how to communicate your needs effectively.

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Read Johnnywriter's Biography

Discover the inspiring journey of Ukeme Johnny (Johnnywriter) from childhood challenges to becoming a leading voice in relationship therapy and emotional healing. Learn how personal struggles shaped his mission to help others transform their pain into purpose.

Early Life

Growing up in Etinan, Akwa Ibom State

Personal Challenges

Overcoming trauma and emotional pain

Education & Training

Becoming a certified therapist

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Frequently Asked Questions

Find answers to common questions about therapy, coaching, and my approach

What kind of therapy services do you offer?

I offer a range of therapy services including individual relationship counseling, couples therapy, emotional healing sessions, trauma recovery support, and addiction recovery coaching. My approach combines evidence-based therapeutic techniques with faith principles to provide holistic healing and growth.

How do your therapy sessions work?

Sessions can be conducted in-person at my Asaba office or virtually via secure video conferencing. Each session typically lasts 60-90 minutes. We begin with an initial assessment to understand your specific challenges and goals, then develop a personalized treatment plan. Regular sessions help you develop insights, learn practical coping strategies, and work toward lasting change.

What is your approach to relationship therapy?

My approach integrates evidence-based techniques such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally Focused Therapy, and trauma-informed care. I believe in addressing both the immediate relationship challenges and the deeper emotional patterns that influence them. My therapy focuses on developing emotional intelligence, effective communication, healthy boundaries, and authentic connection.

How do I know if I need therapy?

Consider seeking therapy if you're experiencing persistent emotional distress, relationship difficulties, or find yourself stuck in unhealthy patterns. Signs that therapy might be beneficial include prolonged sadness or anxiety, relationship conflicts, difficulty managing emotions, sleep disturbances, or feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges. Therapy can also be valuable for personal growth and developing healthier relationship skills, even when not in crisis.

How long does therapy usually take?

The duration of therapy varies based on individual needs, the complexity of the issues, and your personal goals. Some clients experience significant improvement in 8-12 sessions, while others benefit from longer-term support. We'll regularly review your progress and adjust our approach as needed. My goal is to help you develop the insights and skills you need for lasting change, not to create dependency.